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So you have arrived in Oxford, tried the nightlife, had a beer in most of the pubs, been searching on websites for Kinky Life in this city, and so far drawn a blank?
So many people here : something must be going on?
Well yes, and this is your brief guide to Oxford Kinky Events. By necessity this is very short, as my main interest is Bondage, BDSM, Domination, Discipline and Sexual Control. However, my motto is :
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Therefore, this page is open to provide information about non-BDSM events and people, as I believe totally in tolerance, equality and encouraging folk to feel relaxed about their interests. (With the blatantly obvious exceptions :if you are into animal sex, rape, abuse, child pornography,stalking,harassment or violence get outta here!).
If you have information about Oxford events you would like to see posted here : then contact me, with a clear subject header, indicating the area of interest.
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Yes, there are people in Oxford into Bondage Discipline Sadism Masochism, also known as D/s, CP, Master/slave etc. I make no distinction between the various shades of meaning between all these terms, as here, the main thing is : you want to know if it happens, where it happens, and how to get involved.
Yes, we do exist in Oxford! No, we do not all walk around in tight leather gear, collars, whips hanging from our belts. How should perves look? Totally normal, totally average well-adjusted folk, relaxed with their pleasure and virtually invisible. The guy next to you in the bar may be six foot tall, built like a brickie, and be utterly submissive in his private life. The cute little maiden may be a vicious Domme. We may not be easy to spot, amongst all the gothic and fashionable folk, but Oxford is not entirely unpopulated by bondage loving folk.
As far as I know at the present time, there is NO specific BDSM venue or regular meeting place. Unlike London, or Birmingham, where there are well known clubs and venues for Kink parties, Dungeons to hire, and private rooms for use to known people, Oxford is singularly lacking in this department.
To meet like-minded people, there are a few places with regular BDSM personal adverts :
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| Informed Consent This has a searchable database of free adverts by type ( Top/bottom etc) not by location. To make contact you must be a member of the website (which is free)
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| UKSRLP This is a website for members of the United Kingdom Seeking Real Life Partners , which also has a chat channel. Most members are in the North of England, but there is an Email channel for chatting and regular events in Birmingham. Membership is free and you can load a profile.
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| alt.com This is a major fetish database for world-wide contacts. You can search by UK, and with luck find someone within reach. To add a picture to the basic personal advert is fee-based at about 65 GBP.
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| TheKinkLink, a recommended site for cheap personals, searchable by various labels. I know the web designer and builder and can vouch for his integrity and IT skills! This new personals database covers the whole of the UK and you are able to search by county as well.
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For information about safe practice and a brief guide to the BDSM lifestyle, take a good read around Informed Consent ,which has many link pages. You do not need to register to read about safety information, good practice etc.
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Events and places to party for the Gay & Lesbian community are fairly well established in Oxford. I can do no better than to direct you to the following two sites for full details :
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| OLGCC This is the official site for the Northgate Hall, a meeting place with bar in St Michael’s Street, central Oxford. Friday night is a women-only evening, but other events regularly run, and this site lists full nightclub/pub activities for the community.
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| QueerOxford The best guide to Gay & Lesbian Life in the city. Cool design and very informative links.
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This is a constantly changing scene in Oxford, and only a couple of places strictly cater to anything other than the normal punter. For up to date details, check out the nightclub review pages on DailyInfo.co.uk and happy gigging 
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